The parents are the most important teachers in their childrenâ € ™ life. Children learn most of their moral values from their parents. If you have noticed, most of them children imitate their parents. Together with love and care, children need someone to discipline them. The parents are the best, who can discipline them. If disciplined by a parent, the child understands that he or she is loved, but has done something wrong and that was corrected.
Education is much more than the materialistic things for your children. Education should be the time with your children, chatting with them every day, teaching them, good and bad, correct them every time they do something wrong, teaches them manners, teach them to share, to love them, play with them, teach they respect what is installed and moral values in themselves. I am firmly convinced that one of the major causes of violence in our world today is the lack of good parenting. If your children teach values like love and forgiveness, you have helped that our world a better place.
Education is the power to hold that the parents their children in the form of decent and caring people.
Parents have the opportunity to teach their children to inspire and teach moral values. Children automatically mimic what they learn at home and learn what they are at home, which they will never forget. You can be sure that they it to their children as well. In view of the above, parenthood is not only important, it's essential. Good parenting on behalf of the parents will turn to a better society too large.
If we teach and inculcate the right values in our children today, we hope for a better future, and we have the hope for a better world, a world in which our children and grandchildren can live in peace and harmony.
Feb 12, 2008
Nurture Your Child Not Your Ego
Parents should never leave their ego wrapped up in their child. Many parents measure their own value and the success of their childrenâ € ™ s, the successes and failures. The children behave like children, and not propose steps early enough, or not live, did not result in a parentâ € ™ s unrealistic expectations, it can have disastrous consequences for the parents and the healthy development of their children. The parent, will focus on the child can be compared to whom the child.
A perfect example of a parent never satisfied with his sonâ € ™ s reached, the mother of a preteen tennis player. If another mother about his sonâ € ™ capabilities, tennis playerâ € ™ s mother replied through his teeth fixed, â € œWell, heâ € ™ s not Roger Federer.â € (referring to a number of world tennis, living legend, and perhaps the greatest player in history.)
The motherâ € ™ s response is typical of a parent for his child hopelessly surprise and dazzle the world. His expectations were devastating for themselves and their children. He flew to compare the joy to see his son play, and because even Meryl Streep isnâ € ™ a good actress to hide, to the disappointment of the type of mother who felt childâ € ™ s holds, self-confidence was probably suffering as a reason for his love of work.
The flip side of the coin is that the parent, the whole credit for the childâ € ™ of the success and created a series of identity to this child. The parent is seeking an extraordinary child. The parent is special because the child specifically. The child is responsible for the parents a sense of self-esteem.
It is important for the parents why their ego their parental duties. Once the umbilical cord, the children begin their journey of life and on the hands, although caution for parents is essential for their growth, the children earn their own frustrations and successes. The parents are then able to comfort, to promote, applaud, the feeling of pride and love to express.
Nehmend personally for parents for parents is also much more difficult. Unable or denies the child to see realistic that the parents, lack of skills, savoir-vivre and behaviour have to work, and then the parents frustrated and confused when the child. Â € œBut my child is gifted, why is it not potty train? I have a bad mother.â €
Recently, a well-known expert on parent was quoted in the New York Times, â € œThe about very young that they lying fallow, â € says Dr. Karp. Â € œOur job is to civilize, to say to them, if you like it, and thank you, € ™ t not spit and nothing, not € ™ t pee where you want. Those are the jobs that came with a toddler.â €
For a parent, that his ego empêtrés with their little ones, Dr. â € ™ preview image above would be terribly offensive, and even insulting. Instead of saying, â € œYes, that's exactly what I do with my life quite small - and I mean everything really enjoy helping small - to civilized, â € œ she says, â € œHow dare say that my uncivilized.â child is € The mother is not able to see that the reality Dr.â € ™ declaration is not a personal attack, he said that his role is important, and it is normal, 'Have a child , which doesnâ € ™ t really understand the social skills and with his love and the training of children to learn.
His goal, and the borders with junior is an important step in the direction of the ego is not possible to get wrapped up in the child. Â € œHelicopter Parentsâ € or parents who hover, are very, in their way inappropriate, often, the children and adults have falsified, the gap between them and their child.
For example, it is now to the parents to come to the defence of their children, who have a poor quality or were challenged by a teacher. Your ego will be damaged if their child needs correcting, and in response to the hair and professional challenge. The term â € € œhelicopter parentingâ was invented to describe those parents in inpatient flight.
A real example of the incredible, but â € € œhelicopter parentingâ happen if a large insurance. The father, a smart, well-educated and capable, twenty-five years, the woman called his boss to talk about his performance. Weeks later, the young woman even miss a flight, a meeting should take that up with their boss. Understandingly It is said that he directly to the office and work. On the contrary, he has 8 hours train walk in the town to try to attend the meeting, in any case. When he asked why they do not like it at the office was instructed she replied, â € œMy mother told me that I am in the meeting.â €
Parenting without a healthy ego to develop self-awareness and the children. The children know their parentâ € ™ love and feel for what they are and not what they have to follow. If the parents allow their children to their own population, which is an extension of themselves, the children start to take responsibility for their own decisions, and may not like, the good and the bad behavior and the election. By establishing the boundaries between parents and the child, the child has become independent and feel not in a hurry for excellence in the hope that their parents feel respected.
An excerpt from a poem, the beautiful summarizes this topic in Kahlil Gibranâ € ™ s The Prophet:
Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life itself. They come through you but not from you, and though they are with you, they do not belong to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts. You can host their bodies, but not their souls, for their souls reside in the house of tomorrow, which you can not visit, not even in your dreams. You can try to be like them, but not trying to do, as you do.
A perfect example of a parent never satisfied with his sonâ € ™ s reached, the mother of a preteen tennis player. If another mother about his sonâ € ™ capabilities, tennis playerâ € ™ s mother replied through his teeth fixed, â € œWell, heâ € ™ s not Roger Federer.â € (referring to a number of world tennis, living legend, and perhaps the greatest player in history.)
The motherâ € ™ s response is typical of a parent for his child hopelessly surprise and dazzle the world. His expectations were devastating for themselves and their children. He flew to compare the joy to see his son play, and because even Meryl Streep isnâ € ™ a good actress to hide, to the disappointment of the type of mother who felt childâ € ™ s holds, self-confidence was probably suffering as a reason for his love of work.
The flip side of the coin is that the parent, the whole credit for the childâ € ™ of the success and created a series of identity to this child. The parent is seeking an extraordinary child. The parent is special because the child specifically. The child is responsible for the parents a sense of self-esteem.
It is important for the parents why their ego their parental duties. Once the umbilical cord, the children begin their journey of life and on the hands, although caution for parents is essential for their growth, the children earn their own frustrations and successes. The parents are then able to comfort, to promote, applaud, the feeling of pride and love to express.
Nehmend personally for parents for parents is also much more difficult. Unable or denies the child to see realistic that the parents, lack of skills, savoir-vivre and behaviour have to work, and then the parents frustrated and confused when the child. Â € œBut my child is gifted, why is it not potty train? I have a bad mother.â €
Recently, a well-known expert on parent was quoted in the New York Times, â € œThe about very young that they lying fallow, â € says Dr. Karp. Â € œOur job is to civilize, to say to them, if you like it, and thank you, € ™ t not spit and nothing, not € ™ t pee where you want. Those are the jobs that came with a toddler.â €
For a parent, that his ego empêtrés with their little ones, Dr. â € ™ preview image above would be terribly offensive, and even insulting. Instead of saying, â € œYes, that's exactly what I do with my life quite small - and I mean everything really enjoy helping small - to civilized, â € œ she says, â € œHow dare say that my uncivilized.â child is € The mother is not able to see that the reality Dr.â € ™ declaration is not a personal attack, he said that his role is important, and it is normal, 'Have a child , which doesnâ € ™ t really understand the social skills and with his love and the training of children to learn.
His goal, and the borders with junior is an important step in the direction of the ego is not possible to get wrapped up in the child. Â € œHelicopter Parentsâ € or parents who hover, are very, in their way inappropriate, often, the children and adults have falsified, the gap between them and their child.
For example, it is now to the parents to come to the defence of their children, who have a poor quality or were challenged by a teacher. Your ego will be damaged if their child needs correcting, and in response to the hair and professional challenge. The term â € € œhelicopter parentingâ was invented to describe those parents in inpatient flight.
A real example of the incredible, but â € € œhelicopter parentingâ happen if a large insurance. The father, a smart, well-educated and capable, twenty-five years, the woman called his boss to talk about his performance. Weeks later, the young woman even miss a flight, a meeting should take that up with their boss. Understandingly It is said that he directly to the office and work. On the contrary, he has 8 hours train walk in the town to try to attend the meeting, in any case. When he asked why they do not like it at the office was instructed she replied, â € œMy mother told me that I am in the meeting.â €
Parenting without a healthy ego to develop self-awareness and the children. The children know their parentâ € ™ love and feel for what they are and not what they have to follow. If the parents allow their children to their own population, which is an extension of themselves, the children start to take responsibility for their own decisions, and may not like, the good and the bad behavior and the election. By establishing the boundaries between parents and the child, the child has become independent and feel not in a hurry for excellence in the hope that their parents feel respected.
An excerpt from a poem, the beautiful summarizes this topic in Kahlil Gibranâ € ™ s The Prophet:
Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of life itself. They come through you but not from you, and though they are with you, they do not belong to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts. You can host their bodies, but not their souls, for their souls reside in the house of tomorrow, which you can not visit, not even in your dreams. You can try to be like them, but not trying to do, as you do.
Good Parenting Advice - Are You Giving Your Child The Edge At School?
Today, the pressure to succeed at school starts even earlier than ever. Children in kindergarten and the first grade are held to a standard of success that their parents never had to worry. While in the past the early years of free education and the pressure was simply intended to introduce children to formal education, today, children are tested on their knowledge and ability in the first weeks of kindergarten, and that testing continues for the rest of their public school education. This puts enormous pressure on young children, and yet many parents are not all they can to give their children the edge and help them succeed in school. Giving your child the edge does not mean hiring a teacher, the purchase of an expensive education program or to spend hours each day, the drilling of your child. There are several simple steps that every parent can take to give their children the edge in school.
First, make sure your child has enough sleep the previous night. Many parents did not send their children to bed until they themselves go to bed. Children need growing between 10-12 hours of sleep at night. Whether there is very few children who seem to require less, the majority of children need at least as much. If your child seems tired, it is difficult to wake up in the morning, or has any circles under the eyes, then you should move to his bed until you find the magic number that gives the rest she need. If she is tired and lacking energy then it is much harder for her to learn and pay attention in school.
Second, make sure your child has a good breakfast and comes with a good lunch and tea. Growing children need to eat frequently. They should never be sent to school on an empty stomach and all, they should not be expected to succeed in school for a whole day without regular meals and snacks. If you are concerned about your child simply by reducing the weight of the quantity of meals and food is not a good choice. Instead, they try to provide healthy snacks. That should be your goal, even if the weight is not a concern. Sugary snacks and empty calories are not much more useful than no food at all when it comes to helping a child stay focused and energized throughout the day.
Fourth, make sure your child is dressed appropriately for the day and their school environment. When the weather is hot, make sure they are dressed in cool clothes, when the weather is cold, make sure they are dressed in warm clothing. When the weather or the school environment is variable then provide diapers for the child to adapt accordingly. Also make sure the garment is something the child can manage themselves. Many accidents occur bathroom in young children who have problems with their clothes and the worry of what can provide a new distraction.
Fifthly, the right attitude toward school and your child's education. If you send the message that school is not important that the teacher is not worthy of respect, and that your child's learning is not essential is that your child will receive this message loud and clear. From kindergarten and the first year, some children decide to drop out. Make sure this is not the case with your child by projecting a positive attitude toward school and education.
Sixth, get involved. Remember that your child's teachers and the school administration. Getting familiar with their classroom with the routine, special events and assignments. The more you know about your child's school when life more dynamic, you can be to head off potential problems and help them succeed in school.
If you make sure your child has adequate sleep, sufficient food, clothing and project while the right attitude and get involved in their education, then you have done everything you can give your child ahead of success.
First, make sure your child has enough sleep the previous night. Many parents did not send their children to bed until they themselves go to bed. Children need growing between 10-12 hours of sleep at night. Whether there is very few children who seem to require less, the majority of children need at least as much. If your child seems tired, it is difficult to wake up in the morning, or has any circles under the eyes, then you should move to his bed until you find the magic number that gives the rest she need. If she is tired and lacking energy then it is much harder for her to learn and pay attention in school.
Second, make sure your child has a good breakfast and comes with a good lunch and tea. Growing children need to eat frequently. They should never be sent to school on an empty stomach and all, they should not be expected to succeed in school for a whole day without regular meals and snacks. If you are concerned about your child simply by reducing the weight of the quantity of meals and food is not a good choice. Instead, they try to provide healthy snacks. That should be your goal, even if the weight is not a concern. Sugary snacks and empty calories are not much more useful than no food at all when it comes to helping a child stay focused and energized throughout the day.
Fourth, make sure your child is dressed appropriately for the day and their school environment. When the weather is hot, make sure they are dressed in cool clothes, when the weather is cold, make sure they are dressed in warm clothing. When the weather or the school environment is variable then provide diapers for the child to adapt accordingly. Also make sure the garment is something the child can manage themselves. Many accidents occur bathroom in young children who have problems with their clothes and the worry of what can provide a new distraction.
Fifthly, the right attitude toward school and your child's education. If you send the message that school is not important that the teacher is not worthy of respect, and that your child's learning is not essential is that your child will receive this message loud and clear. From kindergarten and the first year, some children decide to drop out. Make sure this is not the case with your child by projecting a positive attitude toward school and education.
Sixth, get involved. Remember that your child's teachers and the school administration. Getting familiar with their classroom with the routine, special events and assignments. The more you know about your child's school when life more dynamic, you can be to head off potential problems and help them succeed in school.
If you make sure your child has adequate sleep, sufficient food, clothing and project while the right attitude and get involved in their education, then you have done everything you can give your child ahead of success.
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